What has society taught us?

For centuries society has taught us how to be the exact opposite of what society really needs. From the beginning especially in school we are taught to fit in, not question authority, use number two pencils, study, memorize, do good on tests (OR ELSE!!), participate in extra activities and follow directions. We are taught that if we work hard, keep our heads down and show up on time we will get a pay check and be living the American Dream. Well guess what, the American Dream is over, or at least it has changed drastically. The world no longer needs a bunch of people who are mediocre rule followers who all fit in and try to buy things in order to be just like each other. Those would be called factory workers and that was okay centuries ago but not today.

What the world needs today are people who challenge authority, who think outside the box, who can see the reality of today and describe a different tomorrow. The world needs people that are creative, innovative and passionate. If you want to be a "good employee/student/etc" and are fine with that then go ahead, show up on time, do what you're told and don't question processes. Be a mediocre rule follower. If you want to be a great! indispensable! irreplaceable! REMARKABLE person then you need to be able to think outside the box. You need to question processes, look for brighter and innovative solutions to find the best possible answer. Opportunity comes by changing the game, changing the interaction and changing the course, not by following the rules.

It's so unfortunate that society has set up a system where students are mass produced and come out with the degrees from schools based on this concept. Even worse there is a hierarchy that chooses which degrees are better then others and which are more valuable then others. The truth is the value is in the person, in their passion, energy, awareness, humanness and able to connect with others, not in how well we're able to be mediocre rule followers. A business full of innovators and creative individuals where they are allowed to think as they want making up the rules as they go is far more productive then a business full of factory workers showing up, following rules and fitting in.

Yes, it may seem safer to hire a group of employees who will do as they are told but it is far more productive to hire those who truly stand out, are passionate and driven. Happiness comes from relationships and human connection. If you have a company where people are allowed to break the rules and rewarded for being creative their inner artist will thrive, they will connect and there will be positive connection and happiness all around you. If you have strict rules, punish those who question processes and dilute creative ideas with order and structure there will be less human connection, less passion and work will NOT be a happy place. Allow, reward and be what society needs to prosper. Passion. Drive. Energy. Awareness and Creativity. Innovative thinkers, not mediocre rule followers

Quitting is for Winners

Quitting isn't always fun. It's not always glamorous or easy or even the right thing to do. Sometimes though, it is the number one best and most exciting thing TO DO. All our lives we are told "quitting is for losers", but really think about where you would be right now if you didn't quit something along the way. If you never quit that job as a server at Pizza Hut, or if you never quit thinking there were monsters under the bed. The truth is that quitting is an excellent strategy and the only way that you can move on to bigger, better or even just different things. It is the what, when and how of quitting that you need to really understand.

Take this for example, right after Nathan graduated from college he was hired at an accounting firm with great benefits, generous salary and amazing people. He loved his job but soon after realized that there was no where for him to advance in the company. He started thinking, how am I going to grow as a person if I can't grow in the company? After much contemplation, he decided the only way to bigger and better things was to quit. He didn't want to go marching into his boss's office, a proud college graduate now being deemed a "quitter". He didn't want to let everyone else down at the firm but it was the only way he could see out, so he quit. It wasn't fun and it definitely wasn't easy, in fact he was scared out of his mind. Nathan soon after returned to school, furthered his education and now owns and operates a very successful and growing accounting firm. All because he knew when to quit!

I'm not saying yes YOU go quit your job right now, but think definitely about it. Does it make sense? Will it lead you to where you want to go? Maybe it's just a transition. If not then perhaps you need to think about a "quitting strategy" to get you where you need to be. You can apply this to all different aspects of your life. You can quit all kinds of things like eating junk food, smoking, being lazy, or having a poor attitude. In the words of Seth Godin,

"Quit the wrong stuff. Stick with the right stuff. Have the guts to do one or the other."
Now get out there and start quitting!!